{"id":64347,"date":"2013-02-03T10:48:33","date_gmt":"2013-02-03T08:48:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/?p=64347"},"modified":"2023-07-26T10:58:20","modified_gmt":"2023-07-26T07:58:20","slug":"living-safely-in-istanbul-american-ignorance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/2013\/02\/03\/living-safely-in-istanbul-american-ignorance\/","title":{"rendered":"Living Safely in Istanbul & American Ignorance"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"Istanbul,
<\/span> Istanbul, Turkey
Midwest-born girl. East Coast transplant. Professional pastry chef. Avid photographer. Expat in Istanbul. Join me as I cook, eat, travel and write about my adventures in my new country. Afiyet Olsun!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

I\u2019m going to stray away from my normal happy topics about the pazar<\/i><\/b>, baking<\/b> and our Turkey trips<\/b> to talk about some local news.<\/div>\n

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I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard about the missing American woman from New York in Istanbul<\/b>. Local police and the Federal Bureau of Investigations have been searching for Sarai Sierra<\/b>, 33, who has been missing in Istanbul since Jan. 21, when she didn\u2019t return to NY. \u00a0I feel sorry for the family and hope she is found, but there are a lot of strange circumstances surrounding the story.<\/div>\n
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Since I\u2019ve been following the story, I have seen and heard many comments online following these news reports and in particular comments being made about Istanbul, Turks and Turkey. Of course, this story is discussed quite differently among my expat<\/b> friends and me here in Istanbul.<\/div>\n
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I\u2019m quite angry and frustrated by these ridiculous, zero-fact based and ignorant comments. I have a difficult time believing these statements are being made by Americans whom have actually traveled to Turkey. Unfortunately, many of these comments are based on stereotypes.<\/div>\n
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It\u2019s no surprise Americans have misconceptions about Turkey when less than half a percent of the population traveled to Turkey in 2011. Millions of Americans travel to Mexico and Canada every year while only a couple thousand visit Turkey.<\/p>\n

According to 2011 statistics released by the U.S. Department of Commerce<\/b>, the top 3 outbound destinations Americans traveled to were Mexico, Canada and Europe. Mexico received 19.9 million U.S. visitors while Canada was visited by 11.5 million U.S. travelers. In third place, Europe received 10.8 million U.S. visitors. In fourth place, 6 million Americans traveled to the Caribbean.<\/p>\n

In comparison, according to a Jan. 6, 2012, article in the Hurriyet Daily News<\/b>, 733,193 tourists from the U.S. visited Turkey in 2011 compared to 619,000 Americans in 2010. That\u2019s an 18.45 percent increase.<\/div>\n
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In the past few years, Turkey and Istanbul have been declared top travel destinations by travel experts such as Travel & Leisure, Lonely Planet and Trip Advisor. Last month, CNN placed Istanbul on its Europe\u2019s 10 Hottest Destinations for 2013<\/b>.<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n
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For the record, I\u2019ve lived in Istanbul as an American with my husband for nearly three years. I\u2019ve gone out late at night in Taksim<\/b> and met my girlfriends \u2013 by myself. I\u2019ve never had any problems. I\u2019m not going to walk down a dark, barren street by myself. I wouldn\u2019t do that anywhere.<\/div>\n
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My husband has never feared for my safety nor NOT allowed me to go out by myself. (Some commentators have said men shouldn\u2019t allow women to travel to Turkey by themselves. I hate the word \u2013 allow.)<\/div>\n
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During the day in Istanbul, I walk around the city all by myself and sometimes with girlfriends. I\u2019ve walked across the Galata Bridge dozens of times. I visit outdoor markets, small stores and the Grand Bazaar that are run by male Turks. I\u2019ve never been assaulted. The occasional rude comment is ignored. I consider myself a big city girl and am smart about what I do.<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n
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Generally, Turks are very helpful and kind people. They will go out their way to help you if you are lost and probably will offer you tea along the way.<\/div>\n
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There have only been a couple of occasions, on crowded buses and the subway, where I felt uncomfortable because a Turkish man was trying to get a little too friendly. Learn a key phrase like \u201cTerbiyesiz<\/i>\u201d and shout it out. \u00a0People will assist you. And even if you don\u2019t speak Turkish, you\u2019ll be fine if you tell someone to F*** off in English.<\/div>\n
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Bad things can happen anywhere.<\/div>\n
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How safe is America?<\/h3>\n
For more than six years, I lived in NYC<\/b>, Washington D.C. and Baltimore<\/b> in the U.S. Each of these metropolitan cities has bad neighborhoods where you just don\u2019t go. I\u2019ve been out late at night there too, but I\u2019ve played it smart. By the way, rude and horrible men live in these cities too.<\/div>\n
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In fact, Baltimore has consistently ranked in the top 10 of America\u2019s most dangerous cities, according to the FBI. Have you watched The Wire<\/b>? In 2010, Baltimore’s violent crime rate decreased about 5%, but it\u2019s still plagued with drugs and poverty and ranks in the top 15 U.S. cities for all violent crimes but forcible rape. Despite these crimes, I\u2019d move back to Baltimore in a heartbeat.<\/div>\n
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Do I need to mention all the gun-related problems that have happened in the U.S. lately?<\/div>\n
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Do you think parents in Newton, Conn., sent their children off to school knowing a crazed shooter would kill 26 people at this elementary school?<\/div>\n
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How about the mass-murder shooting at a movie theater in Aurora, Colorado, that killed 12 and injured 58 others last year?<\/div>\n
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How about the recent nanny in NYC and several parents who have drowned and killed children in bathtubs during the last few years in the U.S.?<\/div>\n
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I repeat \u2013 bad things can and DO happen everywhere.<\/div>\n
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Misconceptions about Turkey<\/h3>\n
Now, I\u2019ll address some of the comments I\u2019ve heard online recently and in the past by friends and acquaintances.<\/div>\n
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\u2018Isn\u2019t Istanbul a desert?\u2019 I was asked this by an American woman at the Charlotte International Airport in N.C. last year. Nope! Istanbul is bordered by the Bosphorus, Black Sea and the Sea of Marmara.<\/div>\n
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Turkish women have no rights. In fact, Turkey granted women the right to vote in 1930 \u2013 while France and Italy didn\u2019t until 1945. Isn\u2019t that interesting?<\/div>\n
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Istanbul isn\u2019t safe because it\u2019s so close to war-riddled Syria. Please take a look at a map<\/b>! Syria is located about 1,200 km away from Istanbul.<\/div>\n
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\u2018Do you ride a camel?\u2019 I heard this one from a friend when I first moved here and laughed. The only time I\u2019ve been on a camel is while sightseeing in Cappadocia<\/b>, Turkey.<\/div>\n
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All Turkish men have harems. From 1453 to 1922, harems were part of the Ottoman Empire and the Sultans in power, but that ended when the Turkish Republic was established. I have heard of married Turkish men having mistresses, but that\u2019s no different than American men having affairs either.<\/div>\n
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All women are covered and wear traditional burqas. While many women in Turkey do wear head scarves and long trench coats, you rarely see women wearing a full black burqa unless it\u2019s a tourist from Saudi Arabia or other Middle Eastern countries. In fact, you\u2019ll see plenty of modern-day Turkish women wearing short dresses or skirts and colorful high heels in Istanbul. Despite the uneven, cobblestone streets, Turkish women seem to love wearing insanely high heels.<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n
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Now, I\u2019m not saying life in Istanbul or Turkey is fine and dandy for everyone. The city and country certainly is not without its faults and bad people. Minority populations such as the Armenians and Kurds have experienced terrible things here too. In the past few months, there have been four violent attacks against Armenian elderly women<\/b> and an Armenian school teacher was killed<\/b>.<\/div>\n
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I also think the Turkish government has a fair number of issues, but I won\u2019t delve into that topic.<\/div>\n
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I repeat: bad things can happen anywhere.<\/div>\n
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So this is just my two cents from an American woman in her mid-30s who is living happily and safely in Istanbul.<\/div>\n
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I\u2019m going to stray away from my normal happy topics about the pazar, baking and our Turkey trips to talk about some local news. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard about the missing American woman from New York in Istanbul. Local police and the Federal Bureau of Investigations have been searching for Sarai Sierra, 33, who has […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":83,"featured_media":64348,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1094],"tags":[102,8735],"class_list":["post-64347","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tourism","tag-istanbul","tag-sarai-sierra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64347","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/83"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64347"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64347\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/64348"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64347"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64347"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64347"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}