{"id":35235,"date":"2011-06-07T12:03:35","date_gmt":"2011-06-07T09:03:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.turkishforum.com.tr\/en\/content\/?p=35235"},"modified":"2014-01-06T09:38:57","modified_gmt":"2014-01-06T07:38:57","slug":"aunty-eliz-we-moved-to-istanbul-for-the-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/2011\/06\/07\/aunty-eliz-we-moved-to-istanbul-for-the-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"Aunty Eliz: &#8220;We moved to Istanbul for the kids&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Edik Baghdasaryan<\/p>\n<p>12:40, June 6, 2011<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-35237\" title=\"Istanbul\" src=\"https:\/\/www.turkishnews.com\/en\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Istanbul.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"266\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eliz is a woman from Saritagh, a Yerevan neighborhood, who moved to Istanbul eleven odd years ago. She&#8217;s a veritable &#8220;ball of fire&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Sitting on the sofa like a mother hen, she gathers up her disabled brother&#8217;s kids under her protective arms and tells me her story. Eliz says she made the move to take care of her brother and his kids.<\/p>\n<p>Eliz resembles a traditional Armenian grandmother; barking out orders to those in the house. No one dares do anything without consulting her first.<\/p>\n<p>Hakob, her brother, needed an operation and the children had to be fed and clothed. She says there were no options left but to move.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My brother was disabled in a car accident. Hovo was one and a half years-old, Elizik was two and a half and Zhanna was a year older. We had no way of making a living back in Armenia. Eleven years ago, it was impossible to find any live in Yerevan. You probably remember how it was like. I worked and raised the kids. I wanted to give them a good education but it didn&#8217;t work out,&#8221; Eliz recounted.<\/p>\n<p>Eliz is a woman in her mid-forties. Five days a week she cleans the home of her Turkish employer. She also serves as a nanny. She&#8217;s been working for the same family for the past seven years.<\/p>\n<p>Eliz sleeps over at the house and returns home on Friday night. She told me her employer is the editor at some Turkish newspaper but didn&#8217;t wish to say more.<\/p>\n<p>As I said, Eliz is a bundle of energy, but I detected a morose side to her as well. She appeared worn-out inside from her work and life in Turkey. It was something in her eyes.<\/p>\n<p>During our conversation she said, &#8220;Please help to get my brother&#8217;s house back.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Eliz&#8217;s seventy year-old mother is blind and resides in Yerevan along with her brother&#8217;s other daughter.<\/p>\n<p>Eliz&#8217;s older brother had been renting for twenty years before returning to the family home. It was impossible for all of them to live together in that 54 square meter house.<\/p>\n<p>The two brothers wound up suing each other in the courts. Hakob was left high and dry and soon became despondent. Life had ceased to have any meaning for him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In a word, they were thrown out due to the decision of the court. So I brought them here to Istanbul,&#8221; says Eliz.<\/p>\n<p>Trying to shed a little humor on the subject, Eliz told me to write down her life story. &#8220;I&#8217;ll translate it into Turkish. We&#8217;ll publish a book and get rich,&#8221; she chuckled.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No matter, just as long as the kids are OK. I&#8217;m a victim of my own destiny. It&#8217;s my fault and the fault of the government back in Armenia that my Hovo serves tea in an Istanbul cafe. At least Zhanna works in a textile factory and is learning to sew. She can return to Armenia and find a job. But what about the boy?&#8221; Eliz asked.<\/p>\n<p>Then, as if I was an official representative from Armenia, she bellowed, &#8220;We want our homeland. We want the government to take care of us. Sick people shouldn&#8217;t be thrown out on the streets.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>One evening, at around 9, I followed twelve year-old Hovik home from his job at the cafe. There was another Armenian, a jeweler, escorting us. I asked the man to find the boy another job; so that he would no longer have to serve tea for his Kurdish boss. The jeweler promised me that he would teach the boy the trade.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I make about 100 Turkish Lira ($70) a week. What&#8217;s hard is being on my feet all day. You can&#8217;t take a moment to sit down. The customers want their tea. My junior boss really is a chatterbox who gives me a headache, always saying I did this or that wrong,&#8221; Hovik told me afterwards at home.<\/p>\n<p>The boy used to attend P.S. 167 in Yerevan. He said he had many friends there whom he misses a lot. When Hovik&#8217;s father asked the boy what he wanted to be as a child, his answer was &#8220;a soldier&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Zhanna, Hovik&#8217;s fourteen year-old sister, was uncomfortable and said nothing at our first meeting. During our next conversation, she confessed that she always aspired to be a painter. Her work was displayed in the Yerevan school she was attended.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When I was younger I wanted to become a painter but now who knows?&#8221; Zhanna confided. She makes around 50 Lira ($30) a week at work. The teenager leaves for work at eight in the morning and returns at nine.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We sew dresses and blouses and attach buttons. I mostly work with Turkish and Kurdish children. There aren&#8217;t other Armenians at the factory.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Aunt Eliz tried to get Zhanna enrolled at a painter&#8217;s club but one has to be a Turkish citizen.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;All four of us work here and get by somehow. The kids are little dolls. I have to keep my eyes on them amidst all these Turks. I don&#8217;t know whether to stay or go back to Yerevan. God willing, we can save up enough to buy a small place back home in order to return,&#8221; Eliz says.<\/p>\n<p>Hakob&#8217;s wife also works as a house cleaner five days a week. He used to receive a 10,000 AMD disability pension in Armenia.<\/p>\n<p>His wife used to work at the Rossiya marketplace as a floorsweeper. She made 30,000 AMD per month.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The family income was 40,000. You do the math. That&#8217;s 8,000 per person. Deduct all the utility payments and what&#8217;s left is just enough for a loaf of bread every day. You ask why we moved here, so I&#8217;ll tell you. It was for the children. It was a tough decision. There was no alternative,&#8221; says Hakob. &#8220;It&#8217;s like a prison here sitting inside all day. At least in Yerevan I&#8217;d get around. There&#8217;s no place to go to here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>via Aunty Eliz: &#8220;We moved to Istanbul for the kids&#8221; (video) | Hetq online.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Edik Baghdasaryan 12:40, June 6, 2011 Eliz is a woman from Saritagh, a Yerevan neighborhood, who moved to Istanbul eleven odd years ago. She&#8217;s a veritable &#8220;ball of fire&#8221;. Sitting on the sofa like a mother hen, she gathers up her disabled brother&#8217;s kids under her protective arms and tells me her story. 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